A place where I share all the wonderful and not so wonderful things I learn about being a mom.
Self Care
I have to admit that for all my talking about the importance of self care, I have a hard time asking for it myself, before my son was born I had made a deal with my husband that I would get an hour everyday when he would take our son and I could do whatever I wanted. That went out the window the first day though when I couldn't even conceive leaving my son for even a second. The weeks and months went by and whenever I would get over stressed I would start off by yelling at my husband over little things until I would just break down and cry and then he would take my son for a few hours while I slept and took a bath and maybe even went out for a little while. After getting sick of this cycle my husband and I decided that it was time to go back to the hour break a day, without me asking for it, and it has been working out MUCH MUCH better ever since. I still take my "15 Minute Holidays" once or twice during the day so that I'm never too worn out when my husband gets home and he can take a break for a little bit before taking over.
So here is the question that I want to ask everyone is how do you do it and what do you do to recharge? I can't wait to here your comments and suggestions.
I also want to thank everyone at Studio 5 for allowing me to share my ideas and for being so great.
"15 Minute Holidays" as seen on "Studio 5"
So many people, especially moms, have a hard time taking time for them; this is a way that you can give yourself a little boost without all of the guilt that we tend to heap on ourselves. Most of these ideas don’t require spending a single penny but they do require that you enjoy them.
- Leave the world behind you.
- Set a timer with a gentle alarm.
- Pick something that will leave you feeling better about yourself.
- Savor your “getaway”.
- Give yourself a minute to come back to “reality”.
- A walk
- A short yoga or Tai Chi workout
- Dancing to your favorite music
- Talking with a friend on the phone
- Bubble bath with candles, bath oil* and music
- Self manicure and pedicure
- Reading a favorite book in a quiet spot
- Meditation**
- Aromatherapy
Homemade Beauty as seen on "Studio 5"
- oil
- sugar or salt
- Vitamin E (optional)
- All Skin Types- Grapeseed Oil, Jojoba Oil, Olive Oil, Sweet Almond Oil
- Oily or Combination Skin- Aloe Vera Oil, Hazelnut Oil
- Normal Skin- Apricot Kernel Oil
- Dry Skin- Apricot Kernel Oil, Shea Butter, Sunflower Oil
- Sensitive Skin- Sweet Almond Oil, Wheatgerm Oil
- Ageing Skin- Macadamia Nut Oil, Wheatgerm Oil
- Sun Protection- Sesame Seed Oil, Shea Butter
Run one spud through your food processor and stuff the raw mash into a piece of cheesecloth.
- Completely dissolve 1/8 tsp into 1 cup of water.
- Soak a cotton ball in the solution and apply to the skin, let sit for about 2-5 minutes and then wash face with cool water and a soft cloth.
Lip Balm Recipes as seen on "Studio 5"
Easy Lip Balm:
Ingredients: 3 parts grated unbleached or bleached beeswax; 5 parts carrier oil ( see the list below or you can even use regular vegetable); essential oil; 1 part honey, for flavor and mild preservative.
1. Melt the beeswax and carrier oil together in the top of a double boiler, stirring to combine. Remove from heat; add honey and essential oil, the amount varies put in to your liking. Mix thoroughly so the honey does not clump.
2. If you'd like to add a little color, stir in a dab of lipstick, it will cool lighter than it looks when melted. Pour the mixture into containers; let sit 20 minutes before covering or moving. For glossier lip balm, use less wax or more carrier oil. To avoid the formation of a hole in the tube’s center, first fill it just past shaft; let cool, and then fill to rim. Let cool for 20 minutes before moving the containers or adding lids.
Complex Lip Balm Recipe:
20% Beeswax
25% Solid Oil (Solid, at room temperature, has almost the same consistency of room temperature butter, maybe a little thicker. Like Shea Butter or Coconut Oil.
15% Brittle Oil (Just like it sounds, is firm and solid at room temperature. The consistency is just like a very hard clod of dried mud. Like Cocoa Butter.)
40% Liquid Oil (The oils I list below are great but even plain old vegetable oil will work just fine.)
Vitamin E oil: (optional, but acts as a natural preservative.)* tips:
- If you don't want to use any honey then the ratio is 1 part beeswax to 2 parts oil for the easy recipe.
- To make a small trial batch make the easy recipe using tablespoons, it'll make about 1/2 ounce.
- a pixie stix is also a great way to add color, flavor, and scent to your lip balms, it’s great for kids and adults alike.
- Anything you add to this should be edible and oil based, if you want to use food coloring to tint it make SURE that it is oil based.
- I haven't tried the comple recipe because I like to keep things simple and I like the easy recipe a lot anyway but I got the recipe from pretendingsanity.com and she loves this recipe and even sells the lip balm.
Oils for each skin type;
- All Skin Types- Grapeseed Oil, Jojoba Oil, Olive Oil, Sweet Almond Oil
- Oily or Combination Skin- Aloe Vera Oil, Hazelnut Oil
- Normal Skin- Apricot Kernel Oil
- Dry Skin- Apricot Kernel Oil, Shea Butter, Sunflower Oil
- Sensitive Skin- Sweet Almond Oil, Wheatgerm Oil
- Ageing Skin- Macadamia Nut Oil, Wheatgerm Oil
- Sun Protection- Sesame Seed Oil, Shea Butter
Adding a few drops of Carrot Seed essential oil to any of these recipes is very good for balancing oily and dry skin and rejuvenating ageing skin.
This site has almost everything you could want or need to make the lip balms and other homemade products:
To find the best prices on containers and great selection of all kinds of containers go to:
(They have a minimum order of $50 but no minimum quantities.)Hello
Hello Everyone!!
I wanted to create this blog as a place to share all the great things that I've been able to share on Studio 5 as well as create a space where everyone else can share as well. Think of this blog as a haven for all of you who love what is beautiful about this world.
If you are like me then your interests are so varied that you'd need an hour just to rattle them all off. So this will also highlight any and all things that interest me at the time. Because I love making my life easier I will also have google links to things that I'm talking about and wil always tell you where I've found the best stuff and the best deals.
I really hope that we can create a wonderful little community here and I will create a full website if this blog gets enough traffic and participation to warrant it.