Have any of you been participating in "Oprah's Lifeclass"? The first class was on ego and the second, tonight, was on anger, they have been WONDERFUL, so many "aha's".
For myself I've realized that when I feel angry it's almost always a way of avoiding the pain and fear I am really feeling, the anger helps me blame the other person instead of really understanding why I'm feeling so hurt or afraid and then dealing with that instead. It really all goes back to ego, my ego can't take the possible insult and so it focuses on the other persons fault instead of facing the real issue and taking responsibility for my part in it even if my only fault was to allow it to hurt me instead of taking it as an observation or their own issue and moving on.
I can't wait for tomorrows class on "Becoming What You Believe".
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